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Do New York grandparents feel the effects of child custody?

Being a grandparent can come with different joys and challenges than being a parent. Though New York grandparents want to do what is best for their grandchildren, they likely also know that the children's parents have the most authority. However, this can be difficult to handle when parents go through divorce and child custody issues arise.

Though one parent may have gotten along with his or her in-laws during the marriage, divorce can often put a strain on such relationships. In some cases, residual resentment toward an ex could manifest in actions toward in-laws. As a result, a parent and grandparents could clash over decisions regarding the children -- such as whether to allow ear piercing -- due to the increased tension.

Because custody issues can often cause a considerable amount of strain on the children involved, grandparents may want to do their best to remain neutral. As a result, they may be able to act as a safe touchstone for children when tension between parents increases. Of course, if disagreements between parents and grandparents occurs, certain considerations will likely need to be taken to determine the way to handle the situation.

Making child custody decisions can prove difficult on everyone involved. Because of the potential for hardships, New York parents may want to do their part to find the best courses of action when handling this aspect of divorce. Gaining information from a reliable local legal resource could allow them to better understand potential methods for reaching agreements and how various arrangements could impact their families.

Source:, "Broken families, broken hearts: The grandparents' guide to divorce", Ted Lewis, July 31, 2017

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